LH: My goal for MC is to work on our issues and hopefully down the line reconcile. It is hard for me to square what she says about not wanting to work our M, but willing participating in MC. I did not have to push her to go, as soon as I suggested it she said yes.
The MC session where she told me she didn't want to give me false hope was last week, since then I haven't asked her to do anything, nor do I plan to
R2C: Thanks for the links. Yes she is still in contact with OM. I told her on Monday that I deserved better than to have a W that would continue an inappropriate relationship with her co-worker. She really didn't have a response for that.
