The best thing I did was suggest the "Drop off parent". IE who ever has the kids drops them off at the other parents house at "exchange time".

This eliminated waiting around for the kids at the other parents house when there is a "Pick up parent".



I also agree that the more exchanges, the more confusion. At the beginning we had some 2/3 variant. My youngest never knew were/when she was going. Always had to clarify.

I would see my kids all the time anyway based off of sports/band etc. One would be in the activity and the other 2 would float back and forth between me,X her parents and my parents.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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