Quote: Does this help? I was motivated to have the discussion with him when I was ready to confront my own demons and how I got where I did. Not a minute before then.
This is what I most need to remember, I think.
I still get so darned stuck in feeling as though I need h to tell me WHY and WHAT and HOW it all happened. And I think I'm keeping myself from viewing my m. as "a success" because I just haven't heard the words of what was missing...what led him to where he was...
anyway, I do truly appreciate your candor and the reminder that these things will happen when the time is right...and not a minute before
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
