Originally Posted by LH19

It means that IMO she has really checked out to pursue a D with a newborn. Something drastically obviously changed over the last 12 months. You don't have a baby with someone you plan on divorcing.


Tbh, neither of us planning on having YS at the time. (We’re Catholic and until this pregnancy practiced Natural Family Planning—timing was off, and tada pregnant.)

Fits the timeline—ILYBINILWY BD in Feb. (early pregancy), things “didn’t really get better” in October (post-pregnancy).

Back in Oct., she originally told me about proposing a break or an S—what I found hard to understand was “you’re gonna do this with a small child? Okay then man that is dumb why would you.....” (my internal thoughts).


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19