Have you retained a L or just talked to one? It might be time to retain one. This would be a good thing to discuss with your L to see if you need to do anything to document your W's threats so you can protect yourself against that possibility.
Just talked to one. But yeah thinking about how to pony up for that retainer. I should probably bring this up to the L.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
OK well "fight her on custody" means what to her, that you're not agreeing to the nesting thing? Because that is complete BS. "Fighting on custody" means you don't agree on the percentage of custody for each parent, it has nothing to do with the living arrangements. The living arrangements are not for the court to decide, nesting isn't a legal issue, it's a personal choice outside of the legal system.
If I understood her correctly (which who knows—she is so out there and I am rattled)—it would mean agreeing to the nesting arrangement but also percentage of custody.
I’m not planning on leaving, and the kids are to be there—so I would see the kids more by definition I guess.
She also proposed that her and the kids are welcome at her mom’s—but that is a bit of a drive.
