Slowly, Hang in there. you are doing great. If OW is out of the way you chances will improve. He will get lonely and need some one soon. Youve done great so far. Your Advice to me has been a godsend. No matter what happens with H know that you have helped many people here. Your a great person.
You said your OM gave you something you needed. Can you tell me what that was. Im trying to figure out what my W has received from OM that i didnt give her.