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lol, Steve, in the event that this is not a logistic trap. For one, I'm not going to sit around and wait a month.

I laid it all out in my last thread. Down to this.

I will tell her that I don't intend to stay in a sexless marriage forever.
I don't want it to be a threatening ultimatum, but I will give it until the end of the year. I'm not sure if I will offer this deadline up without her asking. Then I will STFU. I will listen and validate.

IMHO, a Boundry opens the door to conversation. An Ultimatum leaves no room for conversation and has dire and definite consequences. Something I did not provide, nor did I intend to.

I don't mean to be short, and I hope you know that I always appreciate your comments and input Steve, this all was simply planned and discussed in the last thread. Other than STFU, I have stuck to the plan. BTW, I see the R conversation as a positive.