btw J - I am really glad to hear about your friendship. I am sorely missing that right now. Some good male friendships with other men who are also in a growth mindset and engaged in personal growth. I just don't know anyone around here for that. I tried joining a dad's club in town and it was full of men, probably unhappily married and don't know, who were just chugging along in their lives. No sign of any men who knew how to handle their $hit. It [censored]. I think we would be good friends outside of here. Well, maybe we can find a way to connect outside of here at some point.
