Hi Betsey - Thank you so much for your perspective - exactly what I needed to hear help be calm down
Quote: The fact is, I was getting something from OM that had been missing in my M for a really long time. I was loathe to put myself in a position of not getting what I needed.
My H continues to hold the line that there was nothing missing from our R - this is what is freaking me out. If he could at least be honest with me, it will give me and us something to work on. Just wondering, Betsey, have you ever discussed with Mr.W what it was that was missing? Or, from your perspective, what would motivate you to have such a discussion? I'm at my wits end about how to get to the bottom of this
I expect time may make it easier. But, the sense I'm getting from H is that now it's over, he would like to NEVER talk about it. I just don't want to find myself in a similar sitch again because of this missing X factor
I continue to give thanks for the access to experienced voices on this board. Hugs, Slowly, still smiling
