Spent LONG time today reading through posts. Quite a journey. You are understandably wanting things to be OVER with the OW. Cannot blame you. But I do want to remind you to view your progress and know that, from what I 've gleaned from all my reading of these fine folks' posts is that, the closer we get to home base...the more impatient we tend to become. (I say "we" cause we are ALL gonna get there. )
Whenever you feel that urge to PUSH, look back over to see how far you've come...do you want to go back? Wanna lose ground? Nah. Didn't think so.
I gotta tell ya, after all your kind encouraging words to me..I gotta confess. I am so JEALOUS of all you wonderful folk who still have your philandering spouses at home with you at night. Yours looks like he is a hare's breath from renewal and full return from wherever the space aliens took him....and well, I am actually happier for you than I am jealous.