S.....I would continue to do your thing. Early on I was told that if my Xw wants to recon she will make it very clear and there will be no questions. Hang in there!
Also.....I don’t know if I have it all figured out but what I discovered through this process is my own value and self worth. My best friend and I talk every day through text about various topics about being a man that helps me stay on course. In many ways he had become my Miagi, my guru, my therapist. For me having him in my circle as another man I can confide in has been invaluable.
