[BrightFuture]

OMG, NLT! What a surprise! So happy to hear from you! Thank you for stopping by my thread! I found your last post on your thread that was about 2 years ago. I re-read it and found some similarities with my story again. Except my H didn’t have a crazy OW, like Twinkle Twat, LOL. When I was reading your last thread I was thinking about how your H cycled back a forth between wanting a D (and actually filing for it), and still wanting to keep all the marital assets in joint ownership, and reaming in the area where he could see you. I’m assuming you and your H are still back together, and as you mentioned in FY’s post, it is still a hard work. I would love to hear more about you. How are your D1, S1, S2, and especially D2 are doing?

I’m definitely not rushing H in his journey. I’m not even sure I would want him back… Not now anyway. I think he is still in the process… plus, I no longer want to tolerate some of his antics. Ironically, one of his reasons to leave was that I was a “negative” person and he was sure it was not going to change. Well, guess what… I think he is a “negative” person now, and I’ve changed a great deal! So, I’m the one who doesn’t want this much “negativity” in my life now, LOL.

I’m still trying to compose a post of the observations I recently made about H’s behavior and stuff. I’ve been reading some of the old posts about MLC re-connection and acceptance. I re-discovered a lot of things for myself. I also look at this from a different prospective now, after all this time.