Thanks R2C. I am mulling over what I want to do about custody. I am hearing that kids that are the same age as mine do better with more frequent hand-offs (every 2-3 days) so they are not apart from either parent for too long. I think I want a set schedule every week so the kids are with me on the same days of the week consistently. This would require one day each week the W and I alternate. W has not proposed anything yet.
W did just ask if I would look into mediators and I said sure. I am going to talk to a L for me and also get some mediator recommendations. I am not anywhere near ready to mediate and will tell W so when I give her the names. Until I have decided what I want, there is nothing to mediate.
Otherwise, DBing is going well, I am not as frosty to W, cracking jokes
