Hi slowly, It sounds as if things are really looking up. I think H is still a little torn about what he wants. I also think that if you continue DBing he will eventually give up OW. Yes he still has strong feelings for her and it will take time for him to get over it, but the more time he spends with you the less he will spend with her. Maybe give him a time frame in your mind, a month or so and if he has not given her up completely it may be time for ultimatum. I wish i could just talk to my W. Good Luck, Randy
