Hi slowly, I had been watching for your new thread... I don't have a lot of input to offer, I think you are doing amazingly well, and that you are more centered and in control of your emotions than perhaps what you recognize.
I am also amazed at how similar our sitches are, and I know full well how up and down a person feels when H is off/on w/OW....I heard for the first time in December--christmas day, in fact, that "this thing is coming apart"...heard pretty much the same thing at least two other times, about a month ago was told that "they aren't seeing each other but still talk and are still friends" ....I think the "love you forever" bit is exactly where stuff is w/my H.......are we long-lost twins? Clones? I LOL though, because my H thinks he's so unique and original. I've never told him how "textbook" he is... take care slowly, you are doing great Deb