Originally Posted by LisaAnn
OK, so if he is going to counseling with me, do I continue or is it more harmful?


My 2 cents -

You go. Do not remind him. If he shows up great, if not great. After a few more sessions, you can decide.

I would also find an IC. Start by asking MC for a recommendation.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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