Thank you and yes, it was a mutual decision to care for my mother. I gave up my career 10 years ago when we first moved out of state and he was traveling a lot. When we moved back, he was deployed, parents got sick, etc. I finally did go back part time a few months ago and hired a sitter for my mother. I did lose me but he doesn't see that, or I don't think he does. I'm slowly getting back to where I use to be.
