Absolutely! It was a smart move. I think you know this already but don't tell your W you've consulted a L. There may be an appropriate time to tell her later but right now you've got the upper hand on legal knowledge. Try to keep it that way.
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Yes! There really is no end to how low some WW's will stoop. Have seen this happen too many times on these forums.
Okay—won’t tell her. I’ll try to keep it that way. L mentioned that I could frame this as ‘so I’ve done some research’ (and this is technically true) ‘and what I’ve discovered with respect to this parenting plan is blah blah blah blah....’
Last thing I want to do is give her any more ammo than I already have. I noticed your choice in abbreviation—do you believe my W is a WW, or still WAS (I’ve also read that it doesn’t really matter, WW / WAS / MLC, it’s all rather similar)? Just curious.
