Originally Posted by Bo562
Originally Posted by Steve85


Agreed. Also though, be aware not to mention to your W that unless you are "abusive" you can stay. Many a LBH has found himself out of the house on a false abuse charge.


Oh you’re absolutely right about this one. Won’t bring that up, because who knows what she could do.

Originally Posted by Steve85


I see no issues with you attending this. Now is the time for self-improvement.


Thanks for the validation and affirmation. I put it at the top of my list for that particular session. I’ll sit on my choices for a day or so and then go from there, to let them settle and ‘breathe.’ I could register myself, but my department chair also has offered to handle registration for us. I know I shouldn’t care about what others think, but I feel a bit self-conscious about getting some side-eyes for my choice of this particular session (no one at work knows what’s going on yet).

Steve, I know you commented on my sitch early on but stepped away (justifiably) because of your own sitch, but do you have any thoughts on my sitch as it is currently? I do appreciate your current thoughts—thank you!


Bo, I'll go back and catch up. However, I do have one related to these latest exchanges. So many LBS' come here with the attitude that they can't afford an attorney. The problem is that you can't afford to NOT have an attorney. Almost all of the LBSs that have come here with that thought have ended up biting the bullet and hiring a lawyer. It is very easy. Go to a Dr. for medical problems. Go to a dentist for tooth problems. Go to a lawyer for legal problems.


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