Originally Posted by Bo562


As usual, you’re right A/S.

However the L was a very useful resource for assessing my options for the parenting plan, as well as division of assets and everything like that. That was good.


Absolutely! It was a smart move. I think you know this already but don't tell your W you've consulted a L. There may be an appropriate time to tell her later but right now you've got the upper hand on legal knowledge. Try to keep it that way.




Originally Posted by Steve85

Agreed. Also though, be aware not to mention to your W that unless you are "abusive" you can stay. Many a LBH has found himself out of the house on a false abuse charge.


Yes! There really is no end to how low some WW's will stoop. Have seen this happen too many times on these forums.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57