Originally Posted by Steve85


Agreed. Also though, be aware not to mention to your W that unless you are "abusive" you can stay. Many a LBH has found himself out of the house on a false abuse charge.


Oh you’re absolutely right about this one. Won’t bring that up, because who knows what she could do.

Originally Posted by Steve85


I see no issues with you attending this. Now is the time for self-improvement.


Thanks for the validation and affirmation. I put it at the top of my list for that particular session. I’ll sit on my choices for a day or so and then go from there, to let them settle and ‘breathe.’ I could register myself, but my department chair also has offered to handle registration for us. I know I shouldn’t care about what others think, but I feel a bit self-conscious about getting some side-eyes for my choice of this particular session (no one at work knows what’s going on yet).

Steve, I know you commented on my sitch early on but stepped away (justifiably) because of your own sitch, but do you have any thoughts on my sitch as it is currently? I do appreciate your current thoughts—thank you!


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19