Bo - I think that if you liked her and what she had to say, there is nothing wrong with sticking with her. I have only met with one L and it did cost but I would have stuck with her even if it didn't. She has a good reputation, she listened and asked pertinent questions, she offered her opinion but wasn't bossy about it, and she also is an L who doesn't think it is useful to make everything a fight and spend more money than is needed. That last one is important to me. I don't want to make this process any more adversarial or lengthy than it needs to be. At the end of the day, I just want to ensure my kids will be okay and move forward with the grief process and GAL. Sounds like that is your wish as well. (((HUGS)))