Building my best self and life with or without W

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She asked about the timetable a few weeks ago. And I told her. I probably should have just said I don’t know. I have give. Her a lot of time and space but yea she has always known she can get me back.

Just completely stop paying support or pay just the rent as child support. Realistically / legally it’s all voluntary unless we divorce. So I could just not pay.

Definitely going as dim as possible. I want change. Can’t keep doing the same thing expecting different results.

I will take action. Little to no contact and less or no support on February. Advice appreciated on how to DB and handle this change without coming off as a complete ahole thanks.