LisaAnn, notice how all of our advice has a theme: focus on YOU. As LBSs we laser focus on our WAS. This is never a recipe for success.

I have a thread on this forum somewhere, (I'll find it and link it for you) that talks about the only real way to save your marriage is to not try to save your marriage. LBSs come to this forum looking for two things; Fixing their WAS. Fixing their marriage. Neither of those things are in your control.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018