We've only been to counseling 3 times and I'm told it gets better and the beginning sessions are the hardest. I'm done with excuses and he knows it and I'm working on me.
Frankly, counseling is for two people who are invested in a marriage and just dont know how to make it work. If he wants out, no counselor is going to be able to change his mind. He will complain that they are "siding with you" or "dont understand him" or something to that effect.
More impactful is for you to start to change yourself and to grow into a woman only a fool would leave.
