So here we are starting a new series of threads- every 10 threads a new title.
There are several bat stir crazy sitches on this board, I count mine as one of them. Only fermented oatmeal and going to Alaska seem crazier.... but hey we all have unique features to this lunacy.
It's taken 4 years of living in Savadore Dali land but I have got to the land of Meh.
I date but no big new R yet. Apart from Liam (dibs) no dreamboating, I am devoted Liam. Yum.
I am free, having fun, dancing and loving my life.
So dipstick doodat scum featured bat licking cheaterpants ex is history.
And I have nearly paid off the loans I took to pay my L.
2019 is good so far.
Thank you to kml, job and dearest bttfly for checking on me, if dingbat comes at me then he won't get far because I am learning judo. And I now own nut crackers.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Nut crackers sound as though they're going to be extremely effective. I should think that whatever you got for donut dingbat won't need very big jaws either
Great post, V! I think 2019 is going to be the year of V. I wish you all things bright and beautiful this year.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
I am so very glad that things are finally looking up for you in 2019. You've worked so hard to get to this point and now you can begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Please take care of yourself....and starting really and truly enjoying life!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
In short new life and a happy man. I hope you are feeling a little more loved about who you are. It seems so. I am too. It all takes work however, of course and PTSD will stay, but like grief, it will diminish I am sure.
Surfer.
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