Hey TwoFeet just wanted to thank you for chiming in on my sitch. You seem very level headed. I dont know what advice to give. You saw on my post that we facetimed and saw her at a guys place looking good and I felt hurt and jealous. This is almost 20 months in so more power to you for accepting things faster. If she is out partying as a divorcee its shallow and empty. Not true happiness, love or meaningful physical interactions. I know the same thing in my sitch but emotionally it still affects me.
My W is the same way with appearing outwardly happy. But she has told me she feels like she has no reason to get up, nothing to offer the world but pain. And has jumped from guy to guy since weve been separated never being alone more than the first couple months and always texting with men. I allowed myself to be manipulated and enabled her.
Time to work towards our goals. Live our best lives. Do you have changes you want to continue to make? Are you living with passion and purpose?
Anyway, cheers hope you have a great night.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
