Been reading this post for a while now and thought I'd pipe in for a sec. I too am HDM and can't imagine not wanting to have sex with my W or any woman ( were I single ) that was interrested. I believe that there has to be interrest in any relationship between both parties. Now "interrest" can be many things, each of us has our own view of whats interresting in another person. Suffice to say that if a relationship is going to last, then there has to be other interrests between them outside of the bedroom. My W was a HD when we first met, then over time changed. It wasn't that she liked/wanted sex any less, but according to her, it was too much work. Why?, because she had a dozen other things on her mind, and was unhappy with our R as well. W was not able to seperate (work ) all the issues in her mind, to "focus" on the sex. Myself on the other hand, ( and most men ) can seperate in our minds and so are primed pretty much 24/7. Maybe a big part of LDS is that they are unable to distance their problems long enough to become interrested. I don't believe it's a physical inpairement ( presuming the plumbing is working fine ) as much as it's a mental/emotional one. IMO of course
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