Yeah, that's a good point about the fog. I want to make sure I don't swing too far in either direction. It's hard to be rational when you are dealing with such an emotional event in your life.
I know my XW has done 180s of her own in many parts of her life. She dealt with the D different than I did, but she dealt with it. Maybe not the best way, but she was able to come to me with remorse so I know her world changed at some point. I have to be supportive of the right behavior and have conversations about what I don't like.
I guess the good part about it is that I can feel free to leave if it becomes necessary. This is so different than straight up DB.
I went back and skimmed some of DR, and it wasn't very helpful for my sitch as it stands I now so I'm glad to get input here from others.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018