Totally new to this

[Ready2Change]

I am sorry to hear about your sitch as well as the passing of your parents. The people here are great support network. I am glad you found this site. We have all been through similar sitch, Collectively we can guide you through this.


DR is your playbook. Do not let H know about it or this website. Clear browser history and use incognito mode.


I will reread thread and give my two-cents.


PS: I never snooped, but my X and one of my co-workers were "Just- Friends". This means they were having a secret affair.

The best thing you can do is ASSUME they have been intimate. ASSUME they are NOT TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.