You seem to be doing very well. It's great that you have found friends that don't know your past or your H. It's so much easier to enjoy ourselves when there's no judging you or your situation.
We've been at this about the same length of time. It appears that your H is showing a few signs of waking up. If you remember, my H did the same thing. He went back and forth for what seemed like forever trying to finish his journey. Remember what job and the others have said. We can't rush them. They need to complete the journey on their own.
Congratulations on your son's graduation! It sounded like the party was GREAT! Your H behaved himself, reconnected with your family and had a good time.
Keep on doing what you're doing. GAL, making new friends and leaving your H to find his way.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
