People with nothing to hide, hide nothing. He deleted these for a reason. They were MORE than friendship.
Also, he is checking in with you because he knows you are upset. This is common WAS/WS behavior. Temp checking. "Is she still mad at me?" "Is everything okay?" "Did my BD throw her off the scent?"
Lots of WSs bank on their LBS being so distraught after BD that they can get away with anything. Including still engaging in their inappropriate messaging to OP after BD.
The point is you can't control him. So don't try. Your goal is to detach to the point where no matter what he says or does, it no longer effects you emotionally. Easier said than done. BUT, so freeing once you get there!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
