I honestly don't think she would. I'm hurt because for months I've been trying to see why he has been distant (his boss also passed away unexpectedly and I can tell he wasn't happy now at work), instead of talking to me, he talked to her. I am hurt bc he should have been talking to me. Supposedly it's because they work together and have common interests, fact to me is - both kept it from me. He won't say why they were deleted, only that he knew I would over react. I'm going to bring it up again in therapy to see if he will say. Yes, our initial conversation he did mention D. He said he would give it some time and see what happens and if I change. Thing is, he won't take blame at all. He won't even take blame for the texting. All he says is he really didn't realize it. I feel betrayed by them both and I have told him that in and out of counseling. For some reason while he is traveling, he is checking in so I really don't get it.
