Originally Posted by Manta
How did you family and friends react when you reconciled? Was it hard for you....


There were no issues because we never told them there were problems.

That is a recommendation I make, to keep it private for as long as you can. I know in my case, if I had told friends and family, it would have made R impossible as my W wouldn't have wanted to face all of them ever again. Telling people about your sitch can be a detriment to ever Ring.

Obviously, in some sitches that is impossible. When the WAS leaves or files for D or does something that cannot be hidden (moves out, etc). But my advice to LBSs is to keep it private for as long as possible to prevent the WAW from having another hurdle to Ring.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018