Just remember M it is all relative to the women and her expectations. Yes, he had all the markers but his W didn't know anything different. Hell, they both have the same job and essentially have the same salary. To her it wasn't about the money, or their house, or their stuff, or their vacations, etc. it was about how she felt. None of it mattered to her. I have known my best friend since 1st grade, good dude, parents are still married, he is easy going, laid back, never been arrested, great job, jacked, no emotional issues, baggage, etc. but his wife was done.

Now he is has dove in deep on the whole Blue Pill vs Red Pill discussion and he realized that by being so Blue Pill he killed the attraction. Most women don't give a second chance, he was lucky that he got one and he knows it.

Most women only care if you can financially support yourself, emotionally stable, a good father, etc.. You don't have to be a millionaire or make 6 figures to attract beautiful women. Being comfortable and confident around them is 1/2 the battle. You should read the Rational Male it is a really good read.

I don't discredit anyone on this board that got their wives or their husbands to return. IMO though it is more about the person leaving than it is about the LBS and their DBing efforts. Sure it puts you in the best possible position but it still all falls on the person who wanted out.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018