Manta, I am not seeing a mention of kids. If this the case, I say cut and run> I am pretty anti-divorce. I think it is immoral even. UNLESS one spouse has cheated on the other. In that case the innocent spouse is well within their moral right to D, and move on with someone new. With no kids involved I would suggest, against DBing, to file for D, see it through, and move on with your life. You are only 35. Heck, I got married when I was 29! You have lots of life ahead of you, no need to wait for a cheater to comeback home when there are no kids involved.
I know Steve.
There is no kids involved. This time last year my WW was pregnant, however we had a 2nd misscarrige in less than 3 month's. It was devastating for us both. We both wanted Children so much.
Look, i love her Steve.
I have over 6 years invested in her. I know that whatever happens ill be ok. I'm realistic about my situation and know that the chances of R are slim right now.
If we divorce, then i will move on regardless. She may or may not return. If she does, i might not even want her back.
But right now today, I'm trying to stand for my M, even if it's only a tiny bit of hope.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
