RR, agreed that no one hear knows your sitch and your W better than you do. I can understand completely since my W exhibits many of the same attributes as you.

WARNING, TMI below:

My W doesn't orgasm during intercourse. In fact it takes mechanical apparatus for her to achieve orgasm. When we were younger she was open to including that in our sex life. After this latest BD, when I've raised the prospect she was completely closed off to the idea. Last time I brought it up she was a little more open to it, it wasn't a hard and fast no, more of a we'll see. I think as she gets more comfortable with our intimacy, and things continue to improve and we grow closer, she will once again be open to it.

My point? Things can change. But more slowly for some than others. Maybe she never will, but just because she says she gets "nothing out of it except an orgasm" doesn't mean she'll always feel that way. Also, eventually she might realize that that is a pretty cool thing to get out of it!

Last edited by Cadet; 01/14/19 08:41 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
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