I must say that even though you may have had a couple of negatives during that talk, it went well overall. How would it have gone a year or 5 years ago? Not as well I bet.
So what has changed? And is that working? I would take notes of those two things and continue to do what works. You guys are actually talking, listening, and understanding each other. You can't make her continue to do this, but I bet she will feel respected if you keep this up. I bet you can start with the talk charges/touch charges, maybe a compliment here and there and start to work your way out of this.
I do still think it takes time either way, so continue the 180's you're making and keep a PMA. Good luck.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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