Hi all, after posting the two back-to-back messages above I remembered something else. I never wrote about attending a Divorce Care class back in the fall. It was at a church. I went one time but I found it to be different than expected. There is a curriculum that appears to be quite outdated and videos that appear to have been filmed in the 90's. The attendees were mostly in their 50's or 60's. I'm 40 so it's not as though I'm young but I just didn't feel as though it was the right class for me. I wish there was something else similar that appeals to a broader range of people because attending a class to get through all these feelings of grief is a great way to meet other people going through the same thing and to lend mutual support. An online forum is great but a live group would be even better! I bet some of your cities have such a thing.