I guess I am one of the few men that actually knew what size his W wore in clothes. I would go shopping with her often and help her pick clothes.
I agree that you MUST talk about what you like and you do not like in the bedroom. I was very vocal about trying new things. One thing for certain is that sex in my MR was not an issue at all. I hear all these horror stories about W who cheat and then berate their husband by telling them that the OM was so much better.
I did a lot of reading in my MR on how to keep the spice up in the bedroom and that worked. I am glad that the unhappiness didn't come from lack of sex in my MR.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019