I guess I am one of the few men that actually knew what size his W wore in clothes. I would go shopping with her often and help her pick clothes.

I agree that you MUST talk about what you like and you do not like in the bedroom. I was very vocal about trying new things. One thing for certain is that sex in my MR was not an issue at all. I hear all these horror stories about W who cheat and then berate their husband by telling them that the OM was so much better.

I did a lot of reading in my MR on how to keep the spice up in the bedroom and that worked. I am glad that the unhappiness didn't come from lack of sex in my MR.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019