This is a long marathon and her window of generosity may not remain open too long.
In my situation W was eager to get paperwork over and done with; I wanted to drag it out - some misguided idea of somehow waking her up. Luckily, I listened to some trusted friends, I didn’t push and I didn’t drag. When my L would contact me I made an appointment for his next available day.
I hated signing the final agreement. The feelings of what have I done, what am I doing. Looking back it was the right thing to do. W was proceeding with or without me. Strike while the iron is hot.
I have no regrets with the lessons I’ve learned or the actions I’ve taken. I hope you find yourself at a similar place after getting through a truly mind-boggling time.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
