Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 4)

[Twofeet]

Hey I hear you. My W has always had help. She has always been spoiled. She didn't pay a dime for her college education. I used my inheritance to pay for her master's. I used grants/scholarships/fellowships to pay for mine. W had been given money, autos, vacations, etc. by her family. I was W biggest cheerleader and encouraged and helped her get as far as she has in her career. (She deserves the credit because she is awesome at her job, but she may have never taken the leap without my support or help). Heck, despite what her parents said and their initial fallout they are still throwing money her way, albeit a loan. My point is it doesn't do a d@mn bit of good worrying about it. Some people have it easier than others, it is what it is. Maybe look at your R and determine if what you did was ever reciprocated. If not maybe that's on you for not recognizing it.