My advice is to get the financial stuff finished ASAP. This is usually a brief moment in time that the WAS feels generous. Fairly quickly financial reality hits them and they start walking back their concessions. Strike while the iron is hot if she's in a generous/ feeling guilty mood and try to get everything done. You can always voluntarily give her more money after the divorce if you feel you got too good a deal.
Yes I think reality may be setting in. She already wants to cancel some subscription services like home alarm, exterminator and some other things she did not account for. I would love to get a final decree in hand, take back the house but it is on the market and will likely sell by the spring. I want the kids to stay there as long as possible. I don't think she would be ready for a final decree until it sells because she doesn't have the finances to pay for another place yet.
