LBS dealing with WW (part 7) (piecing?)

[joejoe1]

Joe,

Your ExW is now your GF. You have to treat her as such. She hurt you in the past, but you have grown and she hasn't that's obvious. She now gets to see the confident and attractive Joe and now you AMOAFWL. She got mad because you attended a party with your ExGF, her reaction was not good, but she is showing interest and concern and that's a good thing. You now have to state your position and ask her how you being around your Ex makes her feel. You both need to create boundaries and discuss what you will and will not except.

If you and her are now in a relationship, you have to consider her and how she feels when you are doing certain things. She will make mistakes in this process, we as LBS have the advantage of having this site and these awesome people to help guide us, your ExW/NewGF does not.

Your NewGF will not be exactly like we describe her actions to be, you know if she is sincere. You know with your instinct if she doing something that you can't live with. You will have tense moments. You both are relearning each other while trying to move past those old people you were. It will be times of confusion and anger. Be patient!!!

You haven't done anything wrong nor has your NewGF IMO. You both are really early on in this process.