Whirlwind of Hurt 7

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Focusing on being your best self. Be true to yourself and life will send you what’s meant to be for you. Success a partner etc. Do you love your job? Do you meditate / visualize the things you want in life? Do you focus on problems and negatives or positives and small consistent actions to reach your long term goals. Every relationship is 50% you and 50 your partner don’t take all the blame. Turn your regrets into lessons. Fail forwards. My separation has been almost 20 months and at times had a serious negative affect on my health. Maybe it’s better to be short. Every morning use an I am statement to say something good about yourself and your future. Repeat it 3 times. Visualize 3 things you’re grateful for in the past and 3 things you’re hopeful for in the future. Thanks for coming in on my sitch. I’ve learned a lot and still struggle with DB and how to interact with the mother of my child and woman I thought I’d spend my life with. All the best. I hate divorce but it can open doors instead of close them. Good luck, cheers!