However, I've actually read that's very common, that the person who files is often not the one who wanted the D to begin with.
A/S has alluded to this obliquely earlier, but I hope TJT is right. But we'll see which side of that dynamic W is on.
Originally Posted by Yail
It's nice to feel wildly selfish in this. Everything I do is for me. My financial planning, my attempt to exercise, my schoolwork and studying for something more in my career, possibly buying a house. Everything is about me right now.
This is what made New Year's night feel so amazing for me when I went out and GAL. W and MIL had the kids, so I worked out, and then went for dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings, watched football and basketball and had a couple of beers and didn't get home until about 10:30. Next morning, confession, Starbucks for coffee and breakfast. Felt so single, felt so free, though I always miss the boys when they're out like that. Single Bo would be proud. Honestly, that night felt great.
And tonight I thought I heard W say 'Babe' my way. Don't think too much about it Bo.
