Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 4)

[TJT]

What I do know is that I am trying to work on myself, and have myself be a better person—for myself, but also whether it is for W, or for someone else down the road, hopefully (either one would be nice).

Bo, just caught up and wanted to let you know that while your sentence above may seem insignificant, I am happy for you that you are open to having a good relationship, even if that means it may be with someone else.

I know you would no doubt still mourn the M with your current W in any case, but being open to a different future is a healthy step that takes a lot for all of us to get to.

Also, I would agree with you on NOT moving out of your marital home before there's anything in writing. Everything I've read about being the first to move out points to it being a bad idea, even if you aren't going to ultimately keep it, but your lawyer should definitely be able to confirm based on your specific situation.