/journaling

W and I are both home today. W has the stomach bug that I caught; I’m home to give myself some more rest, as well as my insides are telling me to stay home in case the boys get sick and they need me. W asked me to drop off the boys; and I’m pretty sure I’ll be the one to pick them up, and that’s okay.

Made an appt. with an L for Monday afternoon—initial consultation. Gonna bring the parenting plan doc—the thought that has occurred to me recently, especially with W wanting to get our new living arrangements started around March is: hey, why should I accept living in my current place half-time without the S / D anywhere close to being final yet? This document is not legally binding—not been filed with a court, so what’s her rush? Why should I give up my claim to being here full-time any sooner than I absolutely need to if she is the one who wants out?

Any other suggestions on questions for the L? Thank you!


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19