Anyhow, I told XW that exGF was there for transparency's sake. Then the stream of texts came in, and I tried to make her feel comfortable with the situation. Anyhow, I put my phone on silent mode. When I got back around to checking it, there was a huge long thread of her being mad at me and being distrustful, accusing me of cheating, and insulting exGF. By then it was clear to me that I should not respond. She called and i ignored that too because I didn't want to say the wrong thing.
OK well a few things jump out at me, one is that you and your XW are DIVORCED and not even really dating, right? You've just been kind of kicking around the idea of reconciling? So where in hell's half acre does she think she has ANY right to comment on where you are or who you are with or why?
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She took me off her SM and said she blocked my number.
Very, very childish reaction.
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but I understand how this made XW feel. XW and i have texted some today, but she is obviously still mad at me.
About what???? You didn't do anything!
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I'm upset about it, but I'm also OK if she decides that she doesn't want to do this with me anymore.
Honestly I think you should be telling her YOU don't want to do this anymore. You were kind enough to tell her where you were going and who would be there even though it's none of her business, and you got nothing but anger and venom in response. Are those really the actions of someone you want to be in a relationship with?
