Dealing with a WW and finding my happiness pt. 5

[SoTorn]

This woman that I met lives out of state which is a good thing because we can't just see each other all the time and it also gives me more incentive to get the heck out of state and go do something. That being said, on the 18th, I am going on yet another road trip and this woman will be visiting me again.

Be VERY careful, ST.

Your words of "not wanting a R" and your actions arent matching up.

Her words of "being ok with you not being in a R with her" and these regular meetups arent matching up.

My opinion is that it is inappropriate to be seeing this woman while you are still considering W on any level.

Are you using this other woman to fill your "happiness void"?

Hi Amoafwl. Yes, very very very careful. I understand this completely. I am happy WITHOUT visiting this woman. I personally feel confident again and I am happy with myself. I have been doing a lot with other people. I am actually going out of town to do an activity that I really want to get into and its just something this woman likes to do as well. I have only met her once.

I have boundaries set for myself and have been VERY vocal about them. I am NOT trying to start up a long term relationship. I don't want that. I truly truly don't. But yes I NEED more friends, both female and male.

I am talking with male friends and female friends, new and old. I mean yes I guess this is a form of relationship. At this point its friendly and will remain that way. And at this point I am honestly not considering my WW. My WW fired me, I accept it, I am co-habitating and co-parenting. My WW is still head over heels with OM.